How to recognize a real Leader.

A leader is a leader because he leads, not because his title says that he does. He trusts first, takes risks first, builds relationships first, has faith first, and inspires. He is humble and knows that humility is not a weakness. It is a great strength. He looks after the people to his left and to his right. He is part of something bigger than himself and that is where he drives his strength from. He builds his Self-confidence. Yet, he knows that confidence is not something he is building himself! He knows his self-confidence is built for him, by interactions with others. Leaders are not born they are made. Just as leaders are not born confident. Their confidence is built in their interactions with others. If it is praise by others or doing something selfless for others, it achieves the same outcome. A lack of self-confidence is the killer of many dreams so it is essential to have social interactions. But not just any interactions. Leaders know how important meaningful interactions are. They know that there is no winning in life. Just because he earns $1,000,000 a year the leader has not won in life. He just participates in the endless game. The infinite game. Doing what he thinks is right.

Inspiration:

Book —> “Start with why” by Simon Sinek

Book —> “The infinite Game” by Simon Sinek

Book —> “Extrem Ownership” by Jocko Willink